Welcome to Life According to Gribble!

vintage 1980's Lots-a Lots-a Leggggggs caterpillar who has seen better days

My name is Gribble! As you see in my handsome picture, I am a vintage 1980’s Lots-a Lots-a Leggggggs caterpillar who has seen better days. My girl adopted me when her mother brought me home for Christmas. I remember my girl was about as tall as me when she held me in her little arms. That was decades ago though.

My girl’s now grown into a woman who has also seen better days. Her name is Keani (pronounced K-on-E). She is a mother, widow, and is finally following her passion. Writing. Because I told her she has no other option. Being the wise woman she is, she gracefully accepted my not so subtle hint.

Why have I come to this extreme, you ask? (This is where you ask.) From 2015 to 2018, Keani has experience a most difficult time in her life. One tragic experience after another occurred, including miscarriage, the death of her husband, a period of homelessness, and a deep view of the rabbit hole called depression. Every experience hit her in different ways as you will discover in reading her posts.

Tragedy has a way of changing a person. The life lessons Keani learned during the painstakingly slow and frustrating process of “Moving On” were gained by prayer, soul-searching, hard work, and a lot of tears. I created this blog as an outlet for my girl to share her life lessons. Just like Keani, many individuals are trying to navigate grief that comes with the many kinds of loss. Those things that have made such a difference in her recovery will be of use to others – maybe even you.

Don’t be confused though. This is my blog. She may be doing most of the sharing, but I will be supervising with expert precision. I am, after all, her oldest and longest friend.

Wow! This is one long introduction for a Gribble. Until next time!

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    Scheduling a Funeral Sucks: Let Someone Help You

    Funerals and family do not always mix well. That may be an understatement for some, but scheduling my husband’s funeral taught me a lesson about sharing the burden.

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    Keep Going in the Face of not Wanting to

    I am broken and I don’t want to be here anymore, but I can’t let go. My children need me.

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    How to Include Self-care in Your Everyday Life

    It’s pretty well known that self-care is important, but what counts as self-care? Let’s take a look as some of the less know ideas of how to apply self-care in our lives.

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    Remember the Dream and Take the Hard Way

    I don’t usually pay attention to my dreams, but I had one I can’t get out of my head. The more I looked into it, the more I realized what needed to change in my life.